2.Refraining by Tongue
In this grade also it is advisable to employ kind words or mild criticism rather than resort to scathing denouncement. The Almighty Allah (S.w.T.) told Hazrat MÅ«sa (a.s.):
“Then speak to him a gentle word haply he may mind or fear.”
(Surah TÄ HÄ 20: 44)
The softness or severity of the tone must be considered too.